Mental Moment-Perfectionism
Perfectionism is common among people. People unconsciously use if for a variety of reasons: control, fill a void, fear of success/failure, etc. The problem is even though you know it [...]
Mental Moment-Process
Last week I talked about acceptance and intuition. Two important concepts in the process of change. Today I want to talk a little bit about what I think is the third important concept of change: [...]
Mental Moment-Black or White
So many of the clients I see live in either black or white; all or nothing. Much of the conversation goes like this: well, if I can’t win (the audition, award, game, etc.) then I might as [...]
Diary of a Cyclist-Control
Hey Michelle, well once again you manage to bring me to tears! You obviously hit some buttons every time you respond. So many things you say are right and true. I am not sure when in my life I [...]